So, we've established that Father's day should be changed to 'Who's your Daddy Day' and we've discovered that this day should serve as a reminder for Dad's to recognize the great responsibility they have to their children.
Dad's, if you have boys, realize their need for affection from you. Most men don't know how to show affection or it simply doesn't come natural. Also, there is a misnomer that boys should not be shown affection. I find this repulsive. That somehow instead, they must be un-affectionate, unemotional robots. Unfortunately, a correct model has not been given in many homes.
Affection from Dad helps build self-esteem, confidence and adds tremendous value to their boys' self-worth. All of these are critical in the developmental process for our boys. If we can be purposeful about our role in this process, I believe we will see a new generation of men. Here are some words that may describe these men:
- confident
- emotionally aware
- fulfilled
- peaceful
- compassionate
- loyal
- wise
- attractive to others
- prepared for the future
- ability to make good decisions
- prosper
Dad, love on your boys. Hug them every day, look into their eyes and tell them what you see in them. Kiss your boys every day. Cuddle with them. Tell them how happy they make you.
Every day is an opportunity for you to shape your little man into someone great.
His future will be filled with people, decisions to make and circumstances to brave that desperately need YOU to be the DAD your son needs.
Stretch yourself
Jesse
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